A Parent's Guide to Same Day Surgery

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Each child responds to a new experience in their own unique way. Most children will have some worries about their surgical procedure. It may be difficult and confusing as a parent to answer some questions. Here is some information that may help when talking to your child about his/her surgery and answering their questions.

Infants and Toddlers: Infants and toddlers may be the most difficult age group to prepare for a procedure due to their limited level of understanding and communicating. Children at this age fear separation from Mom and Dad. It may help your child if you bring a favorite blanket, pacifier, or stuffed animal to the Center on the day of surgery. Your child will need to know that Mom and Dad are nearby. Our clinical staff knows how important this is to you and your child. We will make every possible effort to limit the amount of time apart.

Ages 2-6: Children ages 2-6 should be given truthful statements where they are going, why, and how long they will be there. Inform your child in simple words what can be expected to occur on the day of surgery. (Ex. Reading books together may help encourage questions.) Encourage your child to ask questions about the procedure and their worries.

Ages 7-12: Children ages 7-12 are at a very curious stage of development. They will naturally ask a lot of questions and encourage them to do so. An honest explanation of what to expect after surgery is important. Books can be very helpful at this age. Encourage your child to write down questions and concerns which can be answered on the day of surgery by the doctor or nurse.

Teenagers: Teenagers may not express feelings openly, they may internalize them. They worry about their appearance, missing school, activities, and sports. Talk to them about not being afraid to ask questions. Tell them no question is stupid and any staff member at the surgery center would be glad to answer their questions. Be sure to include your child in discussions and assure them all personal information will be kept private.

The clinical staff at Hudson Crossing Surgery Center is always available to answer any questions you or your child may have. Our goal is to make your child’s surgery a positive experience.

You can contact us at (201) 292-3100